Again in love.

Sahiba cancelled the session saying she wants to go out for coffee with a friend.Well who would like to miss both,coffee and the friend? 

Yesterday in the session she was blushing while telling me that she feels for this person she met for coffee. I understood her pattern being repeated again. 

   Tell me more,I said. Well he is cute.Yes he has to be,else why would you agree to go out for coffee with him? So I am enjoying the texts,the communication etc said Sahiba.The connect can only be felt if there is exchange of feelings, vibes, conversations etc. 

Sahiba has recently had a break up after an extremely abusive relationship of two years.Well we human beings,we are meant to be together but that togetherness has to be and should be empowering. Easier said I realise that too. 

Now here the problem with Sahiba is that she is falling in love too soon. The moment there is some conversation happening between her and someone else she is talking it to wrong places.Yes it happens because of “loneliness”and the “need for belongingness”. Loneliness can become very complicated if there is a confusion about to be or not to be .....in love! 

I am meeting him again tomorrow, she said in an excited tone.Thats nice, good break after the lock down. But Sahiba how about trying this,meet him,talk to him,have coffee and have your favourite ice cream too but for the next two months don’t judge yourself or the person you are meeting.Sometimes we start telling ourselves stories and start believing them to be true.Often I must say.

 Now it’s been two months and Sahiba says that she feels a balance in her emotions and feelings because she stopped judging. Coffee is just a coffee and texting is just a conversation between two people which need not be over analysed. Best is to go by your vibes. 

Deeper we went into our conversations in the session,the realisation was that falling in love was becoming inevitable for her till the time she reflected on her choice.Now all that she needed to do was to learn to manage her loneliness.

The wound that is there when someone walks is best healed when you understand only one thing and that is your own self . 

The point of reflection: 

Do I trust and listen to my higher power ?