Blessed with friends.

Pagal Aurat...where are you?
   Two insults...pagal and Aurat ...I refuse to grow up after 24 years. In your heart sweetie,I replied to Anju.I love to twist words when I want to be weird.Yes you are in my heart ...and you have been there for years ...now change the heart and go somewhere else. Achha ...Achha...let me find a new heart in good condition...I will google and find out I said to her.

The laughter from her heart is infectious.

Friend and friendships are all about care...kindness...love...trust...gifts....gossip and bitching....long drives....standing out of the house at 10pm in nighties with drinks to suit our mood....and the most important part of the bond is ...showing each other the mirror...time and again....sides keep changing...concave to convex.These days it is 10x. Make up is important too.

Often I like to encourage people to talk to me about their friemds in my therapy sessions. Oh...we don't have time or our friends are too busy is an excuse. We always have a choice.

Choices many not be there with family members and relatives. Friends and friendships are all about time and effort. And you are blessed if you have friends who are as weird as you.Makes your tribe.

How do you manage your friendships and old friend asked me yesterday.The way I manage you Yuvraj ...I said to him....you don't have to be crazy to be my friend...I will teach you ...and my greetings for my friends normally start with sarcasm.Simple questions have simple answers. Friends and friendships are a choice I said to him .

Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity says Khalil Gibran.

Attention seeking behavior can never be out of its way when I want my friends around....You don't love me, Feeling ignored, Hi Chai ya bye, and my friends know what to do with me. 

That bond .....people go in for it.
Thanks Reet,Nam, Avi, Himmat, Surinder Harki  for being there....endless conversations...chai...Maggie....music...bhajans....drives....hugs....that makes this world a better place.

Dosti Mai hee taqat  hai sahib samarth ko jhukaaane ki...
Baki Sudama main kya that thee Krishna se per dhulwane ki....

Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare Hare ram Hare ram Ram Ram Hare Hare.