Boundaries for whom?

 My husband is always rude to me,he doesn’t know how to talk at all,was one of the Ruchi’s complaints in the therapy session. 

Let’s pause I said. Is he”always”rude?Does he not know how to talk “at all”?

Think and answer.Her silence was contemplative. 

 What is the trigger?I get abusive.Honesty appreciated. 

We know where to fix the problem.

Yes it happens,we are at times not sure about what we are saying about the other person,but we expect fairness from the other person. 

When we clear with our boundaries with ourselves the boundaries with other person can never be an issue. 

Let’s reflect:

What boundary do I need with myself?