Understanding the freedom.

 Sometimes I am reading a book and at other times the book is reading me. The places of reading from my therapy room to cafe to lawn to lake and spaces with in the mind, both keep changing as I am going ahead with every chapter.

          As I was reading the kabir Doha’s, the line struck me deeply ....”Accha  hua meri mala Tuti,mein tou am naam se gai.” Prayers,chanting,meditation etc does it bind us or liberate us. My experience is initially it binds and then liberates.We go step by step onto connecting with ourselves on a spiritual plane. 

Kabir Doha immediately stimulated my thoughts on freedom.How do we bind ourselves.From deep rooted fears to insecurities to lack of belongingness to seeking approval,till the time we resolve them we are not free. 

    Just then a client texted that she feels stuck in a relationship for the last seven years.What is it that can make her feel not stuck.

I wonder if one can be in a relationship without calling it a relationship.

Yes there is freedom if you choose to work on your understanding about yourself and then the other.