Letting go,a process.

Vishal a youngster is going through the process of handling his pain of relationship is knocking at different doors.From introspection,talking it out,tarot card reading,recalling memories,avoiding texting to his ex,he is trying different means to resolve his pain. 

Did I get over possessive?Will she come back etc etc. are some of the thoughts gripping his mind.The confusion is normal.There is lot of churning of emotions and thoughts that is happening every moment.It a pain he is going through and the best part is he is dealing with it and not denying it. 

“Emotional catharsis”is something he stared experiencing while talking it out. Every day there is lot of pain he is releasing definitely through conversations.Now I am in the process of finding myself, Maa he texted a while ago.I was touched.Self work is never easy.It is about pushing yourself beyond and beyond,again and again. 

He went for a long walk with an adult friend and was pretty overwhelmed after the “walk n talk” .Vishal was quite receptive to the thought that if a relationship of ten years was snapped off in a moment that means it was a “relationship of convenience’.

You have never got me a ring in the last ten years was one of the resentment of Vishal’s partner. Just bullshit.Well if a ring is needed to hold a relationship I wonder if emotions have wings.Bonds are maintained with connections of care n respect.Love falls in place. 

And it is not wise to spit on the experience, 

if one may think of it as like that.Letting go is a process that takes time.You have to get engaged in the process and not rush through.Pain will keep visiting you till the time it has served the purpose of giving you the message that you need for your spiritual growth. Openness is important..We deny ourselves pain. 

What do we do with our pain? Do we allow it to make us or break us? Keep asking for the grace of god.