Different shades of the day.

Addressing a group of students at Ankur public School I realised how effective our "Role playing' can be in our every day life if only we are aware of our roles and Boundaries.Roles are important and so is playing.Some of the realizations come to us only when we wear the shoes of others.Also it  depends on the brand and the shoe size.My shoe size .......???? I am the brand ambassador for Bata.

Ma'am can i please  hug you? This little one from grade 5 was full of life...after all he was the birthday boy.He got a hug and I got a chocolate. After all I was the most happening guest who came back with all love from this boy as my return gift.

Later part of the day...in the counseling session with a client...her tears would not stop...nor was her talking and sipping  water.As Anu was narrating her break- up she was careful enough not to disturb her make-up. The rubber band on her wrist became the perfect prop for me to explain her choice of behavior. I asked her to stretch her rubber band as much as she could. ...with deep breaths. As I was telling her to stretch it more ....no ma'am it will break she suddenly said..Reflect on your situation  now. Pause.I am stretching it a lot..Point of reflection.

Towards the evening as I was getting ready for  the Teej party I asked myself...what does it even mean to me....Dancing?
         Dance is the hidden language of  the soul....my heart....it just lets me be out of myself.
What happens when oceans meet? They wave.That is what my soul does to me when  I dance. .....jhumka Gira re???what jhumka????

From driving...talking ...dancing like a sea gull...the next day was celebrated as " Hyberbating day'.

The sacred pause.

As much as I enjoy my 'Breathing practice' I enjoy my 'Waiting practice'. My self worth is not after all in terms of productivity,writing,cooking,earning,finding a soul mate, chanting. My "being time " is my self worth too.

In the evening enjoying the slow drive ..sipping my favorite Jacob creek I asked her what do you care about the most? Your presence!  That made me have some more of jack to Jacob even if I was not meant to.
      Caring is a divine feeling .After all we are precious..