Hold the line???

 Hello...Hello.....who's this??? Can't hear you....

 We say this when we answer a call.Do we ask this to our own self ?? I love calling a dear friend and asking her what should I have for lunch? The pet answer is ...not my brain!!! As if you have any!!!I make a face and ......

Many times we are stuck with our own thoughts...and sometimes......the feelings as if it's a cool breeze.

As we feel stuck with people...so do they.

 Lots of uncertainty in self in itself is the answer. 

Let's not block our paths......don't hold the line.

 People have the right to their choices. If a soul needs certain experiences, it will make those choices. Maybe with a partner, ignoring a call, cheating, chatting, blaming ....etc...etera etcetera. With the child there may be gaps in the relationship in the form of anger, loud voices..

silence  and no contact The space of discomfort is very important for the parents and the child to observe and reflect on where the relationship stands.Just love is not enough. 

The emotional upheavals only show how the fabric of our emotions is being stitched...torn....woven....cut....at times.

 More than questioning someone's behavior, we just need to be in gratitude for God's faith in us to rise and shine. 

Whenever, wherever, however, whatever, whoever is it not  worth asking oneself what space am I creating for myself with the space I have now?

The sacred pause.

        I always have a choice.

The secret boss!