The relationship status.

Oh!you are single! That is so nice.No responsibility. Well is that so?I wonder. I am married, ask me how many responsibilities I have . 

Often these are the casual notions. 

I feel there is no heroism in being single nor can married be considered as martyrs.Being single and being with someone both have their challenges and Balances. 

     Both are situations and choices.

The best that can be done in any situation being single,double or triple is go with ‘understanding’. 

      What is the check point? I feel if you are fair to yourself you would be fair to anyone.Acceptance of reality is the key. A crush should not crush you and a spouse should not browse you. 

Just clarity of thoughts and his grace.