Leading with purpose.

 She: Hi.

Me: High..Hi!

The usual morning and the evening texts  that I get from a  friend of mine.

 What's up

 She: In  bed having Zeera water?

Detoxing.

Me:  I need to detox too.The mind and the body .

Hmm, I'll tell you something.....calling you in a bit. 

The incoming voice call.The red bar and the green bar.

Depending on the caller we always know which colour we choose.

She: Hi babe.

I had a very long conversation with Ms.A ki.And I feel she still has a lot of bitterness  in her. So where do you think this comes from? I asked her, and in the same breath said her bitterness comes from her Ego. 

There was a pause in the conversation. 

She :How  are you feeling ...you tell me?I'm overall fine but sad, just processing some emotions and every time I feel it touches me I feel .....So far and  again....

This is a part of life Gaarg. You know it.

She loves to call me Gaarg.

You're a very inspiring woman and the way you have dealt with yourself, your life, your emotions, feelings and see where you are today.Yes, I did it because I wanted to do it. I did not want my life to go to waste. And here I am, humbly proud of myself.Yes. At the same time, there are some behavior types which I am understanding.

She: I also know you give two fucks to all the shit.

OK, let me ask you.What is it that inspired you about ABC?

Me: Her commitment, loyalty, zeal.Her vision, at the same time I felt her kindness was selective and she was warm, but at the same time very opinionated.

She: So what is that you found challenging? 

Me:Yes, the position of power was there, but she didn't stand for people around her and she had a strong bias and could be very unkind at times.And that is not a very good human quality I said.And the control freak tendency....! 

She:Umm, OK, let's look at you. Where have you reached? 

Me: I know I'm honest with my purpose, commitment and I have  lots of love for people and I love healing the unhealed.

I'm very creative,Joyful, Charming and can get very naughty at times.....The Gypsy soul.

She :Now where you are, what is it that you find most  challenging, you have all the power today.

Me: Accepting certain behaviour types.

She: But...but yes.Wait, that acceptance  has to be there with Boundaries.

The power that we always give to others is through our Emotional Reactions.

The pause.