To be or not to be.

He loves me.
He loves me not
He loves me.
He loves me not.

She loves me.
She loves me not.
She loves me.
She loves me not.

Every leaf of the fern was being plucked by the two youngsters in the park who were trying their best to resolve the conflict How correct are these guess works? I thought to myself. 

A home maker after 20 years of marriage questions her identity as an Individual.Your identity is directly proportional to the probability of you treating yourself as an individual.Clear understanding is another way of resolving the conflict.

I was going through different options to hone my skills in writing and healing. Keep doing...doing doing...is it just doing that keeps us going?

The sacred pause.

Doing nothing said my inner voice.

A teacher asked the student to translate from Hindi to English...yeh kam nai hoga...hoga tou hota jaega.
The student's translation:
This work cannot be done...if it  is done...it will be  done..dona dun..done duna done.

One of my ways of resolving conflict which does work for me which I am loving to share here.
'Sit...do some deep breathing...repeat till you feel you and your breath are one. 
The sacred pause.
Imagine your spirit going out of your body..slowly and slowly....and slowly...it walks out of your body.The spirit goes a few steps away,turns back and looks at you.What does the spirt say to you?
My spirit said today..Do nothing.Stay in the moment.

Practice and it will all come.
Brene Brown says stay in the discomfort till you are there.
Conflict resolution needs patience,time and most important..willingness.

Conversation. Lord Krishna answered: "Arjuna, no doubt the mind is very difficult to control. however, it can be controlled by constant practice and detachment." (Bhagavad Gita 6:35)