Me......tooooooooo !!!! The joy of healing .

Me too… A 'Moment' to  a 'Movement' that today is a mystery and soon would be a history.Pain and scars take its own course to settle.It is process which is dealt with and not denied.

       Movements are short lived and scars go a long  way in being our constant companions. The resultant insecurities and fears that they provide have a mushrooming growth. 

        Diva, was molested by her cousin. The pain was lived and processed, from the point of awareness that she is dealing with the pain and feels gripped by lack of trust to point of empowerment which is creating boundaries with people.

The concept of socialisation has evolved.The female child is educated about the need to Voice her opinion, differentiating between the good and the bad touch. The cultural and social transformations does not expect the victims to go on living in the 'Victim' mode. 

   There is power in Socialisation, powerful are the healthy and appropriate conversations during the 'Family time'. Denying the issues on the other hand is powerless. It promotes panic and deepens scars.

An offender may get away with the rape case  because of the  "influential connections". But the fact is that the guilt over a period of time may eventually shape into deep conflicting energy,which unaddressed may lead to creating permanent anxiety issues. Anxiety then when not dealt with at the right  time with appropriate means may have serious repercussions of permanently damaging emotional and mental balance, thereby making it a chronic depressive case.

     Patterns of pain and abuse have a repetitive tendency of following us like a shadow. Awareness is the key. Breaking the patterns at times is as hard as trusting someone after being cheated.There is the source of patterns of our behaviour and prolonged distorted behaviour can damage the essential nurturing qualities of love, joy and happiness. Loss of faith in one self is alarming only if there is awareness. 

Patterns and pain like sex at times are just in the mind. The body becomes manifestation of diseases and discomfort after the dormant energy gets stimulated by a smallest trigger. Attracting the wrong partner in the relationship is only a manifestation of decision out of Loneliness and often lack of awareness about it. Creative energies, humour, sex, social movements all attract  the short term attention. 

Suppressed emotions distort our realities and the stories we weave for ourselves.We like to chose to base our pain on numbers."I have gone through so much", is a story line we all like to believe about ourselves. Pause here. Spiritual deprivation!!! 

Jammy has a mind set that if two days have good, the third will not be better. A thought created. A mind set! Lack of openness will now rule the third day. 

Self loathing histories repeat themselves. In appropriate understanding adds to the chapters.

    All the #MeToo is definitely in pain. Identifying the right closure is important. We can be and should be instrumental in creating effective support systems for each one of us and for the others. Whether it is a coffee meet, a therapy ,counselling or intervention by the law or any self work, the journey has to be from panic to peace.