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Hello!! I had a divorce six years back. Now I have started liking a man but I am not ready for a commitment yet. What do you suggest?
ShaliniShalini divorce is not easy to handle. But glad that you are looking at life ahead. You at the same time have to be thoughtful. Marriage is an institution, a commitment. Are you ready to stay in a institution? Love is no doubt a very big factor in any relationship, yet in your case you have a bad relationship earlier. All the more reason for you to make a right choice this time.Talk to yourself. Are you really looking for companionship or you are happy being on your own? Do not sacrifice your peace.
I have two daughters,9 and 12 years who have off late started drawing a lot of comparison among themselves. They frequently ask me the question” Who is more dear to you”? ,which I find unable to answer.MIna
Mina,in the growing stage ,children’s level of ego and consciousness is extremely high at times.At the same time the tendency of the human mind seeking approval is very natural.Tell your dear daughters that they both are the right and the left eye of yours and both the eyes are equally important to you.They will understand.
Two years back, after my mother’s death, my brother 15 years old, has started having a very low self –esteem. How should I handle him?Gattika Sharma
Mother is the most important figure in the life of a child, especially during the formative years, when her impact is supposed to sculpt the child’s future. Your brother feels lost in this world. Handle him with sensitivity. Make him come out of his “low” world by communicating to him as much as you can. Avoid sermonizing. Rather involve him in the family by giving him responsibility and valuing his suggestions. The mantra to his sound mental health is to make him feel wanted.
My daughter who is entering her teens insists a lot on wearing the dresses which are not a part of our family culture.
Children are like wet cement. Whatever you feed on them creates an impression.Firstly educate her on the importance of dressing in a dignified manner rather than wearing revealing dresses. Women should look more pleasant than beautiful.Keep a tab on the various stimuli like t.v, magazines……That can impact her choice.Enhance her self-esteem by gifting her good books.Nevertheless, wherever the need be, learn to say NO to the child
ShaliniShalini divorce is not easy to handle. But glad that you are looking at life ahead. You at the same time have to be thoughtful. Marriage is an institution, a commitment. Are you ready to stay in a institution? Love is no doubt a very big factor in any relationship, yet in your case you have a bad relationship earlier. All the more reason for you to make a right choice this time.Talk to yourself. Are you really looking for companionship or you are happy being on your own? Do not sacrifice your peace.
I have two daughters,9 and 12 years who have off late started drawing a lot of comparison among themselves. They frequently ask me the question” Who is more dear to you”? ,which I find unable to answer.MIna
Mina,in the growing stage ,children’s level of ego and consciousness is extremely high at times.At the same time the tendency of the human mind seeking approval is very natural.Tell your dear daughters that they both are the right and the left eye of yours and both the eyes are equally important to you.They will understand.
Two years back, after my mother’s death, my brother 15 years old, has started having a very low self –esteem. How should I handle him?Gattika Sharma
Mother is the most important figure in the life of a child, especially during the formative years, when her impact is supposed to sculpt the child’s future. Your brother feels lost in this world. Handle him with sensitivity. Make him come out of his “low” world by communicating to him as much as you can. Avoid sermonizing. Rather involve him in the family by giving him responsibility and valuing his suggestions. The mantra to his sound mental health is to make him feel wanted.
My daughter who is entering her teens insists a lot on wearing the dresses which are not a part of our family culture.
Children are like wet cement. Whatever you feed on them creates an impression.Firstly educate her on the importance of dressing in a dignified manner rather than wearing revealing dresses. Women should look more pleasant than beautiful.Keep a tab on the various stimuli like t.v, magazines……That can impact her choice.Enhance her self-esteem by gifting her good books.Nevertheless, wherever the need be, learn to say NO to the child
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